
A peony, in my case.
I love peonies—as I child, I associated their blooming with my birthday, although that rarely seems to happen anymore.
C. remembered that the pink peonies of her youth were crawling with red ants. According to Wikipedia, this is because the buds of peonies are covered with nectar.
In early Japan, Wikipedia adds, the Japanese word for peony occasionally referred to wild boar. Why? Because straying Buddhists used flower names as code when they went looking the meats they were forbidden to consume.
The Japanese have also been known to arrange the pink slices of boar’s meat in peony patterns.
This seems almost a Buddhist lesson in itself. Something like: don’t get attached to the idea that anybody’s perfect.
